Favorite Way Of Finding Tears? The ideal for me is a combination of humiliation and pain, though the method’s not as important to me as the result.
I’d certainly never punish anyone for crying… they might learn their lesson and try to repress tears in future – that would be bad.
Tears don’t make me merciful either though – again that might risk stopping them!
Pictures from The Pain Files – Extreme BDSM
I make it very clear that tears are not a safeword with any new partner- more of a goal in fact – so the only change they bring to any scene is to turn me on more really… though I might step things up a bit if they stop.